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The invitation from a Chinese

If you ever got a chance to get invited by a Chinese friend or customer. Please try not to turn them down. The reasons are as follows:

 

1. You make them lose face

 

2. They will probably think you don't like to build the relationship.

 

3. Chinese are more shy, so most likely, they will not invite you again in the future.

 

But what if you really don't have time or not available? What should you do? 

 

I would suggest you to give the reason first, then you definitely need to invite them to a meal later. You may get declined, if this happens, invite them for the second time. I am sure they would love to come.

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RobertVicencio

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 RobertVicencio askbenny.net 
2009-12-08 / 02:30PM

Benny!

How about a blog on your day to day life in Shanghai?

Or even about Chinese girls!!!

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 Dr. Tim mcguinnesspublishing.com 
2010-01-10 / 07:02AM

Benny you are great! We promote you on our website http://ChineseAnimalSigns.com I hope we have helped to make you famous in our own way!

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benny

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 Benny the Mandarin Teacher askbenny.net 
2010-01-10 / 11:10AM
To : Dr. Tim

ni hao, Dr.Tim,

Your website is great, I will recommend it to my students.

By the way, I was born in the year of Rooster in 1981.

Benny Feng



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